Friday, October 24, 2008

Marriage is not just a signature on a piece of paper neither, is it a 'I do' to symbolise unity. It's a commitment - till death do us part. Complex yet it's a gem. Love is mostly the reason when one is ready to commit to another individual. But will the love last till the end? Will the love sparks after marriage?

But what is love? It's so subjective. A profound tender, passionate affection for another person. Sexual passion or desire. Many words to define and it differs to every individual perhaps

When you love a person, there are so many special characters that you can accept. But why do we always accept the positive trades or attitude of the other before loving him/her? Everyone can accept the good things in life or the good points of someone. But can we actually see and embrace one's weaknesses, one's disability, before telling ourselve we are in love with that someone?

My definition of love - if I could accept the negative sides of a person, if I'm willing to be by his side during his time of folly, during his sickness and to forgive the wrong doings ( no one is perfect mind you ), then I guessed you could say that I'm in love. Happiness and contendments will naturally come.

They always ask - what about him that makes you love him? But why didn't they ask me what about him that I don't like, that can make my love any lesser? Well i guessed, none. As despite his lackness, despite his weakness, I love him no less. For he is the best that I could have.

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2 comments:

the MidNight Author said...

kak well said. you i always agree with that..hmn..somehow, not all people think alike. im not perfect too :( life is a learning experience

the MidNight Author said...

amr diab nampak